Expectations versus reality
Wednesday, January 4, 2017 @ 1:31:00 AM | 0 Comment [s]
Kept finding myself getting frustrated at little things recently, too frequently and most of the times ridiculously. Expecting a certain outcome from something i say or do, just won't happen every single time.
A realization, I've choose to ignore.
For example: this girl just wants a hug from the boy but when the boy passed a harmless remark instead of the expected hug, the girl will be disappointed. Thus, it leads to bad emotions such as anger, frustration and tears.
When expectations and reality don't tally, sometimes when the disappointment and the sadness are too strong for one to control, negative feelings will all come gushing down at you and paralyzing the mind to think logically.
Ultimately, hurting the people you love dearly.
Disappointment comes too easily as human beings are bound to create expectations on almost anything. Sadly, its the cruel reality that many know but choose to overlook.
However, many are also aware that if the reality surpasses their expectation, they will feel immense happiness but this is not always the case.
On a final note, this last quote which i myself will also keep in mind, would be not to have high expectations especially on little things. High expectations = High disappointment. I know this, but apparently I still do it. What an irony.
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